loving without thinking

Loving without Thinking

By : Jerome e. Palo

They say “you need to think before you love”, that’s true, but what’s important is what your heart wants the most. Love, love comes in mysterious ways, maybe in chatting, meeting in the park, in the mall and any special place in the world. Love always surprises us. You don’t expect it to come, but somehow you’re loving it.

For some reasons, love can be harmful to us, not in a physical way but in an emotional way. Loving someone is like trusting someone, because without trusting, how can either of you live happily together? The heart can easily understand feelings unlike the mind.

Deciding who to love is hard. Be careful with that, because when you pick your heart to decide who to love, as early as possible train your heart to be ready for the consequences, you have no idea about what will happen in the near future. You can’t even comprehend if this person is good for you or not.

I mean of course this person is good for you because this person gives you what you need the most, which is “love”, but is this love enough? What I mean to say is, can this person give you everything? Do you even know the story behind this person? And can this person handle all the responsibilities when both of you get married?

But if I were given a chance to choose between the heart and the mind, I will choose the heart , definitely nobody can dictate my future not even my wife, because ”happiness is more important than anything else”.